Retirement

Senior

What is a “senior” exactly?

You have the Collins English Dictionary version:

 (adj) superior in rank or standing; older; of or for older pupils

(n) senior person

I like to think we fit the adjective definition of “superior in rank or standing.” We are definitely “older” (but still younger than someone!)

As for the noun…

When do you actually cross the wondrous threshold which makes you a “senior person”?

50?

I was able to join the Canadian Association of Retired Persons (CARP) at the age of 50 which entitled me to a number of benefits and discounts. I pay far less for home and cellular phone than I used to!

http://www.carp.ca/benefits-a-z/

55?

Several businesses gave me senior discounts when I hit 55. I celebrated my 55th birthday by going to Humpty’s Restaurant. Better than champagne at a swanky restaurant was getting my shiny green Humpty’s Emerald Club card which entitles me to 10% off , 20% on Tuesdays if you can manage to keep track of the days of the week post-retirement. (They also have marvellous sugar and jam packets on offer for the financially strapped kleptomaniac.)

https://www.humptys.com/emerald-55-club-card-registration/

60?

Many organizations and businesses called my husband a senior at 60. When he realized other folks were referring to him as a senior, he immediately started feeling “superior in standing” and then applied for the Canada Pension Plan (CPP). Some people wait until they are 65 for this one but after some number crunching, we decided applying at 60 could work for us.

https://www.canada.ca/en/services/benefits/publicpensions/cpp/cpp-benefit/apply.html

65?

This is the big one. Hubby turns 65 this year and will be eligible for the Old Age Security payment. (“Security” may be overstating the effect this amount has on a senior, but it helps!)

Additionally, many 65-year-olds are eligible for the Guaranteed Income Supplement, and their spouses age 60 – 64 may be entitled to an allowance.

https://www.canada.ca/en/services/benefits/publicpensions/cpp/old-age-security/payments.html

A 65-year-old here in my home province, may qualify for the Alberta Seniors Benefit which includes vision and health care. As a heart attack survivor on drugs to prevent a repeat, that medical benefit is precious to my hubby, and he is precious to ME, so I’m happy about this too.

https://www.alberta.ca/alberta-seniors-benefit.aspx

Here we are, still trying to decide if we are “senior persons”.

This list of discounts is sorted by category and age. It appears we are, or are not, a senior depending on who’s looking. Sometimes the discount is only given if we ask about it and follow with proof of age so a list of opportunities is helpful!

https://carleton.ca/cura/wp-content/uploads/Canadian-Senior-Discounts.pdf

But this, folks, this is the best indication of our senior status. 

This invitation, complete with pom poms glued on the corners, makes it official!

We received an invitation from our grandson for the school’s Seniors Tea. I can’t think of a better way to make it official. We weren’t available for these events for the older kids, still working and living two hours away. It is sheer joy to RSVP with a resounding,

“YES!” knowing the school is just 15 minutes away.

Looks like I’m a senior and happy to embrace it! “Tea” means cookies and cake you know… I am IN!

If you have any tips on discounts and subsidies, let me know! I’d love to hear from some of you.

Retirement

Roxanne’s Retirement Uniform (Motivation to Change)

I’m all about planning, it’s the nature of the beast. (“The Beast” in this case being an Administrative Assistant.) It would be no surprise to anyone who knows me to discover I had started planning for retirement sometime in my early forties.

Nonetheless, when an opportunity came to retire from a position, I felt somewhat surprised I qualified for retirement. Me? Planning for retirement was one thing, realizing I was now OLD enough was another thing entirely!

I had the option of saying, “No” and continuing in my position for a while. It was a union position, I was paid well enough and needed more years to get any kind of real pension.

So, why did I say, “Yes!” to retirement?

My brother was diagnosed with cancer last summer and had major surgery. He is mentally disabled and I am guardian to this sweet human.  It is a joy but also entails going to appointments, advocating, sitting by his bedside (holding the puke bucket…) He is turning 75 this year and is starting to fail physically since his hospitalization. He needs me; I am his only family.

My daughter’s Mother-In-Law had recently retired, enjoyed her grandchildren, traveled, went camping and was having a ball. That alone might have motivated me but it was her sudden passing that truly influenced my decision. When she first got sick with an illness contracted out of country, she boldly stated that this wasn’t going to keep her from traveling. I had always admired the woman but the fact that this severe illness wasn’t going to stop her retirement plans made me admire her even more. Sadly, she didn’t recover from that illness, never got to keep traveling, never got to bring out more markers for the grandkids. It could happen to anyone. It could happen to me or you.

Thirdly, my daughter, Mom to three little ones, was planning to apply to medical school and my son and his wife were adding twins to their toddler; it seemed like a good time to change my priorities and become more available to the people in my life.

Halloween retirement_InPixio

I chose to retire October 31st, for one reason only. I could wear pyjamas to work, call it a costume and nobody could fire me. There were a couple of folks who giggled uneasily as they sidestepped out the door, but it was kind of liberating to not care, not even a little bit. Those who I would keep in touch with got the joke, those that didn’t…didn’t.  Along with Pyjama pants, I wore a T-shirt with a picture of me in a housecoat and fluffy slippers holding a cup of coffee. I thought maybe this was what retirement looked like.

It did.

For about a week.

It’s been surprisingly busy, full of adventures, children, self-reflection, and retirement budgeting! Join me on the ride?